The Danger Narrative Series: Who Gets to Be Violent in America?

“I Was Taught That Violence Solves Problems” By Chaddrick Thomas Before I ever picked up a weapon, before I ever saw the inside of a courtroom, before I ever became another name buried under a violent crime conviction— I was taught that violence was the answer. I learned that lesson at home. Not in some criminal underworld. Not from TV or rap music. From love. From discipline. From the people raising me. When Pain Becomes the Teacher I was spanked. Whipped. Told it was for my own good. That “this hurts me more than it hurts you.” That if I did wrong, the answer was a belt. Or a switch. Or a backhand. And that if I cried? I got hit again—for being soft. I learned that pain was a consequence. That violence fixes disobedience. That when someone steps out of line, you make them feel it. That was my first education. And it came with love attached to it. The First Violence We Normalize Is Domestic In Black households, we don’t always get the luxury of soft discipline. We’re taught that...